I Left My Heart on the Cable Car: A San Francisco Love Story
Rediscover the magic of San Francisco through the eyes of a returning local. From Powell Street cable cars to misty mornings and unforgettable city views, see why life in SF is unlike anywhere else — and why so many who leave end up longing to return.
The Wrong Trainer, The Right Lesson (and What It Taught Me About Real Estate)
The Wrong Trainer, The Right Lesson: What Fitness at 60 Taught Me About Real Estate
At 60, I hired a personal trainer—and learned a powerful lesson about choosing what truly fits your life. In this blog post, I share how chasing the "perfect" trainer (and later, the right one) helped me see real estate differently: it's not about the biggest or flashiest home, but about finding a property that fits where you are and where you want to go. Whether you're downsizing, investing for retirement, or rethinking your next chapter, the right home should support your lifestyle—not strain it. Read on to discover why finding the right fit in real estate matters more than ever.
You Don’t Need More Connections. You Need Real Ones.
There comes a moment when you realize you’re not tired of people—you’re tired of shallow connections. This reflection on selective social energy explores why meaningful relationships matter more than ever, and how that same philosophy should guide one of life’s biggest decisions: buying or selling a home. Because real estate isn’t just a transaction—it’s a relationship built on trust, clarity, and connection.
Still Gold: Finding Worth, Family, and a New Beginning in 2026
Your worth doesn’t come from others—it comes from within. As 2026 begins, Richard Valdez reflects on resilience, family, and self-worth, and invites Bay Area buyers and sellers to find their next home with confidence.
Finding Happiness at Home: Ending 2025 with Gratitude, Beginning 2026 with New Possibilities
Finding Happiness at Home: Reflecting on 2025 & Embracing 2026 with Gratitude and Purpose
As 2025 comes to a close, it's time to reflect on what truly matters — not the milestones we missed, but the home, love, and memories we already hold. In this heartfelt year-end message, Richard Valdez shares a powerful reminder: happiness begins at home. Whether you're staying grounded or looking for a fresh start in 2026, discover how your home can be the foundation for lasting joy. Start your new chapter with guidance from a trusted real estate expert at www.RichardValdezRE.com
Retiring in California vs Baguio: A Day in the Life, by Richard Valdez
Is retirement in California worth the cost—or is a life of peace, beauty, and abundance waiting in Baguio? Join Richard Valdez for a vivid, side-by-side glimpse of retirement realities. From $12K property taxes to mountain-view mornings under $300 a month, discover what it really means to thrive in your golden years.
The Quiet Power of Survival
Surviving toxic family dynamics isn’t loud — it’s a quiet, steady reclaiming of peace. In this personal reflection, I explore the hidden wounds of generational trauma, the power of boundaries, and the freedom that comes from choosing your own healing. This is the quiet power of survival: waking up each day no longer owned by your past.
Thanksgiving Reflections: A Moment on the 37 Bus.
This heartfelt Thanksgiving blog from San Francisco real estate professional Richard Valdez explores how a simple act of kindness on Muni Bus 37 became a powerful reminder of community, connection, and gratitude. In a city healing from the impacts of the pandemic and ongoing social challenges, this story celebrates small moments of humanity that make neighborhoods stronger. Read on to discover why quiet kindness may be the most meaningful gift this holiday season.
On Social Media, Flexing, and the Quiet Power of Respect.
Aging, Authenticity, and the Art of Not Flexing.
In a world obsessed with social media "flexing," Richard Valdez reflects on lessons from his grandmothers, the meaning of true wealth, and the quiet power of humility. A thoughtful look at how character, not currency, earns respect.
The Medicine Cabinet Diaries
From Vanity to Vitality: What My Medicine Cabinet Says About Aging Gracefully
Witty, raw, and relatable—this deeply personal essay explores how one man’s medicine cabinet transformed from a symbol of youth and vanity into a reflection of love, longevity, and purpose. Join Richard Valdez as he reflects on aging, health, and the unexpected beauty of growing older—one pill bottle at a time.
San Francisco, Halloween, and the Meaning of Home
Experience Halloween in San Francisco: Community, Real Estate, and the Meaning of Home
Discover how Halloween in San Francisco’s vibrant neighborhoods — from the Castro to Noe Valley — reflects the deeper values of connection, community, and belonging. In this blog by Richard Valdez, explore how the spirit of the season mirrors what truly makes a house a home. Learn why real estate in San Francisco is more than just property — it’s about finding your place in a city where tradition, trust, and togetherness still matter.
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The Family You Build.
In this deeply personal narrative, Richard Valdez explores the meaning of chosen family, the courage it takes to walk away from toxic ties, and the freedom found in building a life rooted in unconditional love. From leaving behind the pain of his past to embracing a joyful, authentic life with his husband and four dogs, Richard’s story is a powerful reminder that family isn’t always where you come from—it’s what you create. Read more about how redefining family can lead to peace, healing, and a true sense of home.
San Francisco Real Estate: Why the City Holds Its Value in the Age of AI
San Francisco luxury real estate is experiencing a powerful resurgence, fueled by the city’s booming AI sector and limited housing supply. Explore exclusive listings and insights at www.richardvaldezre.com, your trusted source for premier Bay Area properties.
Groceries, Labels, and Other Luxuries
"Life, Labels & the Luxury of Choice: Reflections from a San Francisco Realtor"
In his latest blog, Groceries, Labels, and Other Luxuries, Richard Valdez shares a heartfelt reflection on aging, identity, and the power of personal choice—from grocery aisles to life’s biggest decisions. With humor, insight, and a touch of nostalgia, Richard connects everyday moments to larger themes of freedom, equality, and authenticity. Whether you're navigating real estate, relationships, or just the fine print of life, this story invites you to consider what truly matters—and what you're choosing to bring home.
Selling Your Home in San Francisco: Expert Tips from a Realtor.
Thinking of selling your home in San Francisco? Discover expert tips from top San Francisco realtor Richard Valdez on how to stage, price, and market your property for a fast, profitable sale. From curb appeal to strategic pricing, learn how to stand out in the competitive Bay Area real estate market.
5 Costly Home Buying Mistakes to Avoid — A Realtor’s Advice for Smart Buyers.
Avoid the most common — and costly — home buying mistakes with this expert advice from San Francisco realtor Richard Valdez. Discover the top 5 things NOT to do when buying a home, so you can make a smart, confident investment.
When Your Realtor Ghosts You.
Buying Property in the Philippines from California? Don’t Get Ghosted by Your Realtor.
Whether you're a California homeowner exploring investment opportunities abroad or an OFW planning to retire in the Philippines, your Realtor should be your strongest advocate — not your greatest mystery. In this candid post, a San Francisco-based Realtor shares a personal story of being ghosted during a cross-border land purchase in Baguio. Learn what red flags to watch for, how communication makes or breaks deals, and why choosing the right agent — one who shows up and follows through — can make all the difference. Real estate, like love, is about trust. Don't settle for less.
The Gift of Growing Older: Finding Peace, Freedom, and Perspective.
Discover the wisdom of growing older in this personal reflection on life lessons, finding peace, and letting go of toxic relationships. Learn how silence, perspective, and self-growth can lead to true freedom and fulfillment.
A Love Story Told by the Sun and Moon: Celebrating 17 Years of Marriage
Celebrating 17 Years of Marriage: A Multicultural LGBTQ+ Love Story in San Francisco
Join a Filipino realtor and his white husband as they celebrate 17 years of marriage in the dynamic city of San Francisco. From building two homes and raising four spirited dogs to navigating rising mortgage payments and embracing the poetic balance of the sun and moon, their story highlights the beauty of enduring love across cultures and identities. This heartfelt anniversary message offers inspiring reflections on commitment, sacrifice, and choosing love every day—perfect for couples seeking authentic LGBTQ+ relationship stories, multicultural marriage insights, and long-term love advice.
Finding Sanctuary in a Noisy World
Home is more than a house—it’s a sanctuary. As a San Francisco Realtor, Richard Valdez helps clients across the Bay Area find not just property, but peace, comfort, and authenticity in the place they call home.