The Quiet Power of Survival
Surviving toxic family dynamics isn’t loud — it’s a quiet, steady reclaiming of peace. In this personal reflection, I explore the hidden wounds of generational trauma, the power of boundaries, and the freedom that comes from choosing your own healing. This is the quiet power of survival: waking up each day no longer owned by your past.
Thanksgiving Reflections: A Moment on the 37 Bus.
This heartfelt Thanksgiving blog from San Francisco real estate professional Richard Valdez explores how a simple act of kindness on Muni Bus 37 became a powerful reminder of community, connection, and gratitude. In a city healing from the impacts of the pandemic and ongoing social challenges, this story celebrates small moments of humanity that make neighborhoods stronger. Read on to discover why quiet kindness may be the most meaningful gift this holiday season.
On Social Media, Flexing, and the Quiet Power of Respect.
Aging, Authenticity, and the Art of Not Flexing.
In a world obsessed with social media "flexing," Richard Valdez reflects on lessons from his grandmothers, the meaning of true wealth, and the quiet power of humility. A thoughtful look at how character, not currency, earns respect.
The Medicine Cabinet Diaries
From Vanity to Vitality: What My Medicine Cabinet Says About Aging Gracefully
Witty, raw, and relatable—this deeply personal essay explores how one man’s medicine cabinet transformed from a symbol of youth and vanity into a reflection of love, longevity, and purpose. Join Richard Valdez as he reflects on aging, health, and the unexpected beauty of growing older—one pill bottle at a time.
San Francisco, Halloween, and the Meaning of Home
Experience Halloween in San Francisco: Community, Real Estate, and the Meaning of Home
Discover how Halloween in San Francisco’s vibrant neighborhoods — from the Castro to Noe Valley — reflects the deeper values of connection, community, and belonging. In this blog by Richard Valdez, explore how the spirit of the season mirrors what truly makes a house a home. Learn why real estate in San Francisco is more than just property — it’s about finding your place in a city where tradition, trust, and togetherness still matter.
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The Family You Build.
In this deeply personal narrative, Richard Valdez explores the meaning of chosen family, the courage it takes to walk away from toxic ties, and the freedom found in building a life rooted in unconditional love. From leaving behind the pain of his past to embracing a joyful, authentic life with his husband and four dogs, Richard’s story is a powerful reminder that family isn’t always where you come from—it’s what you create. Read more about how redefining family can lead to peace, healing, and a true sense of home.
San Francisco Real Estate: Why the City Holds Its Value in the Age of AI
San Francisco luxury real estate is experiencing a powerful resurgence, fueled by the city’s booming AI sector and limited housing supply. Explore exclusive listings and insights at www.richardvaldezre.com, your trusted source for premier Bay Area properties.
Groceries, Labels, and Other Luxuries
"Life, Labels & the Luxury of Choice: Reflections from a San Francisco Realtor"
In his latest blog, Groceries, Labels, and Other Luxuries, Richard Valdez shares a heartfelt reflection on aging, identity, and the power of personal choice—from grocery aisles to life’s biggest decisions. With humor, insight, and a touch of nostalgia, Richard connects everyday moments to larger themes of freedom, equality, and authenticity. Whether you're navigating real estate, relationships, or just the fine print of life, this story invites you to consider what truly matters—and what you're choosing to bring home.
Selling Your Home in San Francisco: Expert Tips from a Realtor.
Thinking of selling your home in San Francisco? Discover expert tips from top San Francisco realtor Richard Valdez on how to stage, price, and market your property for a fast, profitable sale. From curb appeal to strategic pricing, learn how to stand out in the competitive Bay Area real estate market.
5 Costly Home Buying Mistakes to Avoid — A Realtor’s Advice for Smart Buyers.
Avoid the most common — and costly — home buying mistakes with this expert advice from San Francisco realtor Richard Valdez. Discover the top 5 things NOT to do when buying a home, so you can make a smart, confident investment.
When Your Realtor Ghosts You.
Buying Property in the Philippines from California? Don’t Get Ghosted by Your Realtor.
Whether you're a California homeowner exploring investment opportunities abroad or an OFW planning to retire in the Philippines, your Realtor should be your strongest advocate — not your greatest mystery. In this candid post, a San Francisco-based Realtor shares a personal story of being ghosted during a cross-border land purchase in Baguio. Learn what red flags to watch for, how communication makes or breaks deals, and why choosing the right agent — one who shows up and follows through — can make all the difference. Real estate, like love, is about trust. Don't settle for less.
The Gift of Growing Older: Finding Peace, Freedom, and Perspective.
Discover the wisdom of growing older in this personal reflection on life lessons, finding peace, and letting go of toxic relationships. Learn how silence, perspective, and self-growth can lead to true freedom and fulfillment.
A Love Story Told by the Sun and Moon: Celebrating 17 Years of Marriage
Celebrating 17 Years of Marriage: A Multicultural LGBTQ+ Love Story in San Francisco
Join a Filipino realtor and his white husband as they celebrate 17 years of marriage in the dynamic city of San Francisco. From building two homes and raising four spirited dogs to navigating rising mortgage payments and embracing the poetic balance of the sun and moon, their story highlights the beauty of enduring love across cultures and identities. This heartfelt anniversary message offers inspiring reflections on commitment, sacrifice, and choosing love every day—perfect for couples seeking authentic LGBTQ+ relationship stories, multicultural marriage insights, and long-term love advice.
Finding Sanctuary in a Noisy World
Home is more than a house—it’s a sanctuary. As a San Francisco Realtor, Richard Valdez helps clients across the Bay Area find not just property, but peace, comfort, and authenticity in the place they call home.
Navigating a Toxic Parent: Distance, Survival, and Family Trauma.
Navigating a toxic relationship with a narcissistic parent is never easy. In this personal reflection, I share how emotional distance, self-preservation, and the guidance of my grandparents helped me survive family trauma and reclaim my life.
The True Measure of Style: What a Home Really Reveals.
Discover why the most stylish homes aren't perfect—they're personal. Realtor Richard Valdez explores how authentic interior design reflects true personality, and why welcoming spaces tell a deeper story than trends ever could. A must-read for Bay Area homeowners and design lovers.
The Gift I Never Opened.
Not all gifts are acts of love—some are weapons of manipulation. In this powerful personal narrative, Richard Valdez unpacks the emotional weight of toxic relationships and the freedom found in setting firm boundaries. Discover why true peace comes not from fixing the past, but from walking away from it.
Reflections at 61: A Cocktail of Love, Change, and a Dash of Solitude
At 61, I’ve discovered that love isn't measured by how many people fill the room — it’s in the quiet moments, the chosen family, and the peace that comes with living authentically. In this deeply personal reflection, I explore how relationships evolve, why presence matters more than popularity, and the quiet joy of celebrating life with those who truly see you. Read more about growth, gratitude, and the unexpected beauty of solitude in midlife.
Planning Our Escape: A Love Letter to Baguio, Patience, and Control
Are you a Filipino-American planning your move back to the Philippines? Discover how we built a long-term real estate plan for Baguio City—complete with architect selection, geo-risk mapping, and the hard lessons learned working with local agents.
When Home Becomes a Legacy
When Home Becomes a Legacy: Making Thoughtful Real Estate Decisions for Your Family's Future
A house is more than just a place to live—it's where memories are made and legacies begin. But when it’s time to downsize or transition a longtime family home, the decision can be emotional and complex. Learn how to turn your property's value into lasting peace of mind, financial stability, and a meaningful future for the next generation. Whether you're exploring selling, planning for senior care, or securing your family's legacy, Richard Valdez offers trusted guidance every step of the way.