Reflections at 61: A Cocktail of Love, Change, and a Dash of Solitude
At 61, I’ve discovered that love isn't measured by how many people fill the room — it’s in the quiet moments, the chosen family, and the peace that comes with living authentically. In this deeply personal reflection, I explore how relationships evolve, why presence matters more than popularity, and the quiet joy of celebrating life with those who truly see you. Read more about growth, gratitude, and the unexpected beauty of solitude in midlife.
What Scented Candles Can Teach Us About Life, Aging, and Finding Our Voice
Discover how scented candles mirror personality, aging, and self-growth. A 60-year-old reflects on life through fragrance, identity, and ritual.
Evolving Spaces, Evolving Selves
Discover how your personal style and home design evolve through each decade of life in this inspiring blog by Richard Valdez. From minimalist white spaces in your 30s to European-inspired living in your 50s, explore how fashion, food, and interiors reflect your growth — and how your home can tell your story. Perfect for those seeking lifestyle inspiration, home styling tips, and a deeper connection to the spaces they live in.